These are real testimonies, from real people that have gone through the How to Survive an Affair system. They cover everything from repairing their emotions to rebuilding the trust back into their marriage. Please go through them and experience the kind of transformation that is possible with this system.
"I could relate with all these stories"
"The part I really liked was the real people telling their own stories, what they went through and what they are doing now to rebuilt their trust. I could relate with all these stories."
Laura Rubio
Greenvale, NY
"I was able to carry on"
"Your system is amazing. It gives you the strength to carry on in life and never to assume that it is over just because of an emotional break down. I was able to carry on instead of thinking it was over."
Temitope Olorunshola
Kogi, Nigeria
"...speed up the healing process"
"You are helping us speed up the healing process. Thank you for an excellent guide."
Virginia Trott
Montgomery, AL
"I learned how to start trusting my wife again"
"You are a big help! You taught me how to take my wife's reassurance at face value and quit doubting her sincerity. After doing that I learned how to start trusting my wife again."
David Woodmansee
Moore, OK
"I feel more secure and feel that I can begin to trust him again"
"Building trust has been the biggest challenge for us and at times appeared to be impossible. The tips that you provided have been great becasue it has made my spouse understand my feelings and needs better and I feel more secure and feel that I can begin to trust him again. Thanks!"
Lylla Childress
Cary, NY
"I could have used this information early on."
"I would have liked to have had this information when I first learned about the affair. I could have used this information early on."
Doug Saylor
Snow Shoe, PA
"I like the way the material is presented in the chapter. My emotional state is very clouded with information, searching for answers, grasping at anything, trying to make sense, and feelings of defeat. This chapter was very well organized. As I read the chapter I felt I could breathe and begin to understand what was happening to me. What I personally like best about this chapter is how it is presented. The simplicity and structure of information put things in perspective for me so that I could sort through my emotions and begin to understand."
Lori Ann Spinelli
Morganville, NJ
"I... like the fact that you do not condemn me for feeling that way."
"I liked the fact that you addressed the emotions that the injured feels. My husband has cheated on me about 3 times that I know of during the course of our 10 year relationship. I have felt every emotion that you named and could add bitterness as one. I also like the fact that you do not condemn me for feeling that way."
Nolita Jackson
Oxford, GA
"Identifying my shortcomings has made me better understand myself"
"Even though we are still going through a very rough time in our marriage trying to cope with my past infidelities I'm stepping outside myself and realizing how inconsiderate, selfish and hurtful that I was not only to my wife, but to my children. Identifying my shortcomings has made me better understand myself and become a better husband, father and person."
Jimmy E Garren
Vancouver, WA
"It does work"
"This is good information for me. It does work, and drastically reduces the tension in such situations. I am acting in a calmer manner.
Byron F. Sonday
Hammond, IN
"you laid out a plan for me to rebuild the trust with my wife."
"I appreciated how you laid out a plan for me to rebuild the trust with my wife. I really like your information on the 5 Building Blocks for having a transparent relationship and learned how I am guilty of doing the 10 Destructive Habits that tear down my relationship."
R Smith
Boise, ID
"...your book exactly describes what should be done."
"I think you hit the nail on the head when you said to sort through your emotions instead of asking questions about the affair. I think people don't know what to do when they are so numb from finding out, but your book exactly describes what should be done."
Kristin Slagle
Milner, GA
"You really seem to understand how painful it is"
"The 9 shockwaves you wrote about are exactly the way I feel. I am experiencing the 4 roadblocks to healing. It really helped me to see in writing that I am not going crazy or feeling things I am not supposed to feel. You really seem to understand how painful it is."
Georgette Blemker
Fort Wayne, IN
"The other books never had any real counsel or direction"
"It was dead on to everything that I felt. I have sorted through countless books at the bookstore that talk about the emotions, but all it is talk. This book seems about really taking hold of it. The other books never had any real counsel or direction. This seems direct, to the point, yet compassionate."
Amy Mitton
Mission Viejo, CA
There is Hope!
Not only can you overcome the pain you are feeling right now, but you can make your relationship better than ever
